Incontinence is nothing to be ashamed of and it’s certainly nothing to ignore. It’s just another one of life’s little situations and simply has to be dealt with. It’s no different than dealing with monthly cycles or runny noses. There is no reason to let it upset you or make you miserable by keeping you inside the house. You have a busy life to lead, so get yourself some Tranquility diapers and get out there and mingle. Ride your motorcycle; dance all night; go to that concert.