If you’ve reached a point when you are ready to start using an adult diaper, you will likely find it makes your life a whole lot easier and more comfortable. Can you imagine being a young girl who has gotten her monthlies and yet refuses to use sanitary napkins or tampons? A quarter of her life will revolve around dealing with her “condition.” In your case, the use of something like disposable diapers will have the same effect. It will free you to think about other, more important, things, and not be obsessed by what your bladder is doing.