Losing control of your bladder need not be a death sentence for your social life. It’s all in how you look at it. After all, when you were a young girl and you experienced your first monthly cycle, that wasn’t so bad, was it? This is just another of those things that our bodies do that we’re not exactly in control of, so we should treat it the same as we treated all of those other changes. There are all kinds of incontinence supplies – like Tranquility briefs, for instance – to help you just get on with things.